I feel like a lot of suburban kids grew up having to take swimming lessons. There was nothing really that special about swim lessons, they were just basic swim lessons teaching you how to…well swim. Not a big deal right?
Wrong.
You see my mother was a competitive swimmer in her youth. She was the star of her high school team and she was even offered a full ride to an accredited university to swim. She was even a good enough swimmer to make it to the olympic qualifiers back in the seventies. In fact she was less than a second away from actually making it to the olympics.
Pretty cool right?
For her yes, for me no.
You know those parents that like to live the ambitions of their youth through their children? Yep. You guessed it. My mother is one of those parents.
So she decided that if I was going to be an olympic swimmer I obviously should have the finest instructors around. So she took me to the local community YMCA.
Now I don’t know about the YMCA’s in your area, but I know the one in my area recently got remodeled for a very good reason: it was hell. That YMCA was a place of misery and pain in my youth. I would walk in there every morning and be attacked by the horrid stench of what the receptionist would always call “hard work paying off”. To be honest it constantly smelled like a gas leak or something. On the way to the women’s locker room we would always walk by these old men working in the equipment room, grunting and constantly complaining about the horror movie like lighting. Looking back now I’d say that that was a pretty good metaphor for my whole situation.
Anyway I would get my one piece swimsuit on every morning and go jump in the pool while my mother watched near the door. Now it’s probably a good thing that my mother was one of the only parents that stayed and watched instead of working out themselves because I am nearly one hundred percent positive that other mothers would have shamed her for giving birth to such an awful swimmer.
Oh and it would be deserved. I was literally the worst swimmer that the YMCA had ever seen in that band aid filled pool. After weeks of lessons all of the other kids were swimming laps and having a great time swimming in the deep end whereas I was in the shallow end trying to figure out how to float. I would feel my mothers judging eyes watching me day in and day out wondering why i wasn’t good. Until finally one day my swimming instructor explained to my mother that swimming was not for me. She was shocked and full of rage, but I mean I was happy because I really hated swimming. We drove home in silence.
And this was one of the first of the many times that my existence has disappointed my mother.
OH WELL.
#poofproblems
-Poof